Pillow Talk with Raw Daddy – Drae "Danger" Dixsem

Pillow Talk is back and I had the pleasure to interview rising porn star Drae Dixsem. Some of you all might know him from his erotic dancing as “Danger” throughout the country and the world, but many were introduced to him via his work with BlackBreeders.com. I had the opportunity to meet him personally over a year ago at ONYX’s Blackout in Augusta. He’s a real cool guy and very funny. LOL. I had the opportunity to interview him recently and I think you all will enjoy getting to know Drae Dixsem. 🙂

Tell us about yourself Drae (age, where you from, etc.) 

Well Im still 25 years old born on February 19 so im on the cusp of Aquarius and Pisces. Orginally from Detroit MI but have lived in Atlanta and currently Houston.

How did you get your stage name? 

My Stage name is Drae “Danger” Dixsem. Danger came from the years of exotic dancing I did where I became most notable from the shows I did traveling the U.S. with the infamous ReDICKulous, who suggested to me that I should have a theme song so when Im announced people already know who I am before I hit the stage. I was like a theme song? He said “Yea man that would be hot!”, so I was listening to Mystikal’s song “Danger! Get on the floor” while getting dressed and “boned up” for a show, standing there, DICK HARD, in costume, Mystikal playing on my laptop, we looked at each other and said “That’s hot!”, and “Danger” was born. Over the years performing nationally for Gay Pride and other events like cruises and even a couple trips to the U.K., I was requested for “private shows” and later escorting where my character, Danger, had to evolve, people were looking for more depth, wanting to see a different side of me, asking to book me to go on dates and for companionship services, and so like a super-hero, Danger needed a more mild mannered, alter ego, who I called Andre Dixsem. From exotic dance and escorting services, I knew I had to continue to grow and reinvent myself if I was thinking about expanding my brand of Adult Entertainment. So, I toyed with the idea of  having a dildo molded from my penis, cuz people jokingly would say it looked DANGER-ous and often pretty, lol, and I agree. And when approached by B.K. of Forbidden Funk Media/BlackBreeders.com , Andre Dixsem, was shortened to Drae Dixsem, so Im Drae “Danger” Dixsem!

If I’m correct, you got your start in the adult industry as an erotic dancer. How did you get involved in doing that? 

I actually began professionally dancing when I was like 12, performing hip-hop dance, modern, and ballet, all through school and when I graduated high school, decided to exotic dance at the local clubs until school started at U of M, which was really the beginning of more than I had imagined it would be.  

How long have you been doing it? 

Today Ive been working as an exotic dancer for 11 years.

Along with dancing, you have done escort work as well. Was this like the launching pad for you to start doing porn? 

Yes, it was. Porn, for me, gave the viewers a preview of what they could anticipate experiencing in one of my sessions.

Which do you prefer more: dancing, escorting or doing porn? And why? 

I love dancing and filming porn. It allows me to travel to different places and entertain masses of people doing something that is almost second nature to me, like a creative outlet.

You started your porn career with BlackBreeders.com (Forbidden Funk Media). How was your first day on the set? Was it all you thought it would be?

I was eager. I felt excited to be in the midst of starting another chapter, felt like I was transforming from a dancer/escort to yet another facet of entertainment that I knew would reach many via the internet, dvd, and live shows I would one day be featured in, close to the feeling I felt during my first performance for an online strip club I was featured on called NubianStippers.com. It was more than I thought it would be but in a good way, everything was so organized and professional. I was really impressed! Felt like “Yes, this is really a business venture, not some ghetto, unprofessional shit where Im brought in with another model, told we gone be recorded having sex with just us and a cameraman. There was a complete staff and protocol and order. I like structure.

Does your family know you are in the adult film business? If so, what are their thoughts? 

My family knows bout the dancing but I don’t think they know about the filming, not that Im ashame of it, jus feel its not for everyone to know, wouldn’t hide it, jus don’t feel that its something that needs to be introduced to my family, I do this for my fans, anyone who is intrigued/fascinated/entertained by gay porn.

We have known each other for a short time and I mentioned to you that I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment. Much of the porn featuring Black and Latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and within the Black/Latino community and with my company I will change the negative imagery. I would like to know your take on this! 

To each his own! Its really all between the individual and their MAKER at the end of the day so if u make peace with what you do, there’s nothing anyone else should say about it. No Man Can Judge Me, just my attitude in life.

From your time doing porn, are there are some things you were surprised to see and/or experience? 

LOL yea a few things. The amount of actual work that a production puts into the little that we see on the screen before the sex, the amount of dedication to a project that can be required, the limits that some guys can push themselves to in the name of a NUTT! It can be looked at from a lot of different sides and I like that it can be much more complex than most would think, making porn is more than jus ok , get naked, you and him or all yall gone fuck, and someone’s going to record it, even though in some instances it looks like that is what happened and maybe it does but just surprised me that that ISN’T what Ive experienced in my time filming.

As we talked earlier, your entrance into the porn business was with Forbidden Funk Media. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with other major companies (i.e. Raging Stallion/Falcon, etc.)? 

Absolutely, I think if anyone expects any sort of longevity and growth in any creative art form you have to be willing to branch out and do some new and different things. Just have to stay mindful that new isn’t always better, so have to make smart moves not just new moves.

All of your scenes have been Bareback/Raw! Is this by choice? Would be open to do safe (i.e. condom) scenes if the opportunity presented itself? 

Well if you’re familiar with Forbidden Funk/Black Breeders, you already know, it’s a bareback/raw production, so yes that was my choice, but Im not opposed to safe scenes at all, so if working on a project that requires the use of condoms presents itself at the right time, I don’t have any issues with that.

Continuing with the Bareback/Raw sex talk, there is a big debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections in the African-American and Latino-American communities, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their criticism?  

Well for me, porn isn’t a tool designed to sway peoples personal practices, it is intended for entertainment purposes, so I think people need to assume responsibility for their own choices, versus looking for an outlet to blame their behavior on.

Recently, there have been some notable deaths of popular mainstream and urban porn stars (i.e. Erik Rhodes, Roman Ragazzi, Adam Faust, Haze, and more).  There has been wide speculation that many of the deaths were from abusing drugs and steroid use and while some were from natural causes. The “dark” side of the porn industry is the rampant usage of drugs (i.e. meth, cocaine, etc.) Have you seen it while working in the business? 

Fortunately, in my work in porn, I haven’t seen drug use, the producers Ive worked with are very strict about personal conduct, in that whatever you, as an adult, choose to do, as an able minded adult, is your choice, just don’t allow it to interfere in the work we come together to do. So, if there is any drug usage, people have been good about doing it away from our work, and I like that. I always say “do what you do, jus don’t fuck up my scene and lets make some magic”. 

With all your time in the adult industry as a dancer and porn star, you will have your haters and people criticizing you for working in this industry. How do you handle the negative comments/criticisms? 

I don’t handle their negative comments/criticisms, that’s their issue, not mine. Im living my life for me.

When you are doing porn, what type of guy is needed for you to give a stellar performance? J

Someone with the same kinda work ethic I have, willing to grit and bare it to get a good scene, sometimes u wanna jus bust a nutt cuz it feels good, but that sometimes happens before the job is done and that’s the goal getting the job done, there also needs to be chemistry, not just a nice body, nice dick or ass, gotta have some passion in what we doing and passion for what we doing, making good film.

With the films you have done, who have you enjoyed working with? 

Umm damn theres lots of folks ive worked with ive enjoyed working with. As far as models, Antonio Biaggi, Big Beef, Champ Robinson, Kane Rider, Marc Dupree, Quawn, Ramey West, Remy Mars, and Vann Williams.

For future films, which porn stars would you like to do a scene with? 

Hmmm, maybe Kannon, Big Redd, Xman, and TrapBoyy.

In most of your films you have showcased great top skills. J Recently we saw you bottom for Champ Robinson and Quawn. Can we expect you to be more versatile on film?

  I am a Vers/Top and I am open to both have done more bottoming than actual scenes have been released of me doing it so I mean I guess it just depends on what scene Im cast for and whats most needed a lot of the time I think its difficult to find guys who can fill the top role reliably, like performing for the camera and its one my strengths so that why I think im usually cast topping

When filming, do you wish to top more or doesn’t matter? 

If there is good chemistry between me and my co star it doesn’t really matter but because I think of myself as aggressive and more dominant than submissive, I tend to naturally take the top role unless the scene calls for me to embody something different.

You have done mainly 1 on 1 scenes. Do you have a preference of doing 1-1 scenes or are you open to 3somes/group scenes? How about in your private life? 

Well again that kinda comes back to whats been released vs. what ive recorded I do like 3somes/group as well in my personal life, lol.

What’s your favorite position to be fuck? Be fucked?

I like to fuck from the back and with a dude on his back. I like to ride and get hit from the back.

Do you prefer a smooth or hairy ass? J Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both? J  

I love smooth ass. I prefer a combination of thick and long but nothing too too long like my insides where they are lol.

There has been much discussion on how bottoms are looked negatively doing porn, even though many enjoy seeing a sexy bottom getting fucked. What is your take on the double standards in gay porn between Top and Bottoms? 

You really won’t have good porn without the submissive role however it is probably the perception that the bottoms are too feminine which is really a case by case situation I know a few submissive bottoms that perform well on camera that I think still maintain some masculinity which to me does make for hotter porn but sometimes it is very difficult to not let the bitch out when there’s a dick up your ass, lol.

Your work has been for a company that has done films with a Fetish/Leather theme (Watersports, Assplay, Leather play, etc.) Would you be willing to do it on film?  In your private life, what fetishes do you get into (if at all)? 

Well I have done toys, watersports, ass play, and leather play on film and live! In my personal life I think im a little more hands on and so aside from lube and cockrings, the most ill do on occasion is a dildo or vibrator, but my dick and tongue are my favorite extras.  

Are you single or in a relationship? 

I am currently in a relationship.

How has working in the adult industry affected your personal relationships? 

It hasn’t really, its work for me and anyone getting to know me must understand that that’s a part of who I am and how I support myself and am not to be judged by it so its kinda mind over matter and if I don’t mind it shouldn’t matter.

What type of guys interests you (i.e. physically, mentally, etc.) 

I like all kinds. i’m really eclectic – tall, short, thin, muscled, light, dark… confidence is the thing i’m most attracted to but jus have to have a mutual attraction its more bout the energy between me and the other person I’d say.

How did you lose your virginity? 

LMAO… In the summer back in like middle/high school when our parents were away, my friends and I and whoever we were dating or hooking up with would all meet up over someones house while the parents were at work.. watch tv, listen to music, play games and make out etc. the girl I was dating and I went all the way cuz hell so was everyone else (most my friends were at least 3 years older I was the youngest in our neighborhood clique)

In the next 5 – 10 years, do you still plan to be in the adult biz or retired from all of it? 

Hopefully I will have grown into a different more producing end of it. Maybe director of a production show not necessarily film but producing.

What are your plans after retiring from the adult biz? 

Ill be letting my experience work for me to create opportunity to make money off my experience maybe even writing.

For those people who wish to get into the porn business, do you have words of wisdom for them? I mean tell the good, bad and ugly. LOL 

I say think about what you really want to do, how u want to be viewed and who will best represent you the way you see yourself, that’s about it.

To Segway off porn for a minute, I’m sure you know we are in a very “Intense” election season. Do you follow politics? If so, how do you think President Obama is doing as President? 

I don’t follow politics much but i’m Obama all the way and I think he is really about change which is needed cuz nothing should stay the same always.

With the economy being somewhat anemic, has this affected your escort business? Erotic dancing? 

Ummm yes some people want the services but cant afford to pay what I ask for the services, and as for dancing I mean everything is different clubs budget, patron tips! i’m sure the economy is a big part of that.

What are some issues do you feel are most important? Least important? 

Equality, Unemployment, Growth and Education are important. Least important – I don’t know probably cuz they seem so unimportant, lol

Gay Marriage is a hot button issue and it came to head again with the Chik-Fi-La drama. LOL  What are your thoughts about gay marriage?  Do you wish to get married to your partner? 

I think gays have as much right to be miserable with whomever they want for life just like the heteros, lol ..No at this point i’m not ready for marriage but I think everyone should be able to marry if they want, all that matters is love and every one needs it

Tell your fans what Drae likes to do for fun. What do you like to do in your spare time? Hobbies? 

Video games, music, travel, just have fun, being active. I’m open to lots of things I like diversity.

What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you! 

I graduated high school as salutatorian and am a certified massage therapist and been practicing legitimate massage for six years.

Here are Raw Daddy’s list of quickie questions I ask each interviewee.

• Name 5 of your favorite music artists Mary J. Blige, Trey Songz, Chris Brown, Brandy. Marsha Ambroshia
• What’s your favorite color? Blue
• What’s your favorite curse word? Fuck
• What’s your favorite movie? The Color Puple
• What’s your favorite song? Zoom – The Commadores
• What do you fear the most? Being in Outer Space
• Boxers or Briefs or Jocks? No Fly Trunks
• New York City or Atlanta? New York
• What’s your favorite lube? Wet Platinum
• If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why? President Obama because he is amazing example to my generation of black men that you can create change by pushing for it.
• If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why? The city, Im energetic and sometimes at the strangest hour, I wanna jump up and be active.

Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best in all your endeavors. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans? 

Thank you for appreciating what I offer to the world as one of my gifts and that’s to entertain at least one person with my talents.

Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you? 

Facebook DraeDixsem, Twitter @pstardraedixsem and my blog is draedangerdixsem69.blogspot.com

Pillow Talk with Raw Daddy – Kidd Rockk

This month’s edition of Pillow Talk, I have the privilege to interview a rising star on the porn scene, Kidd Rockk. He is a really cool and down to earth guy from the East Coast and is one of my sons ! 🙂 Enjoy our interview! Note: You might have issues viewing this interview via your iPhone or Android phones 1.     Tell us a little about yourself  (age, where you from, etc.) I am 28, born and raised in Baltimore, Md. Relocated to NYC in 2010. Very much an exhibitionist and adventurous. I love to cook and have fun. A work-a-holic; but it allows me to travel and experience new people and things. 2.     I’m assuming your porn name isn’t your birth name. J  So how did you get your porn name?  It took a lot of searching but i’m a big kid who loves to have fun and joke around. I sometimes have to much energy so thats where the KIDD come from. ROCKK is after one of my porn idols, IANN ROCKK. So I kinda stole his last name to pay homage. 3.     Some of your fans know of you from your xtube videos back in the day. Was this like the “kickstart” that got you motivated to work in the adult industry?   YES! Everyone loved my xtube videos. Whenever I would post a new video the next day, my inbox would be full of messages. I had stopped posting for a while and I would still get messages of people asking when would my next video be, and how could the be a costar. It added an extra boost when people would recognize me from my xtube videos, so I figured I might as well get paid for doing a good deed. 4.     Once you started working with porn companies, was it all you thought it would be? I think that its just like any other profession, there is good and there is bad. I have never had a HORRIBLE experience, and I don’t think I really had any expectation going into it seeing as though I had never done it. So I was kinda prepared for anything. And I asked others that I knew in the industry the experiences and some guidance. 5.     What was your first day on the set of porn movie like? My first REAL porn movie? It wasn’t as stressful as I thought it was going to be. Very laid back. They made me feel comfortable. QUICK, EASY, AND PAINLESS. I think I had cleaned out so much that day it started hurting. I was trying to be as prepared as I possible could be. It all worked out well 6.     Your filmography is quite impressive. You’ve worked with a variety of ethnic/interracial companies (i.e. Breed It Raw, Forbidden Funk, ChocolateDrop and more). If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with major gay companies (i.e. Raging Stallion/Falcon, Treasure Island, etc.)? YES! Actually I have interview with Treasure Island Media and also with Dark Alley. Both wanted to work with me so we will see what comes. I’m very open to whatever may come my way. I am very open minded and like to explore and try new things. Never want to be LABLED! 7.     Since your introduction into porn, all of your scenes have been bareback/raw! Is this by choice or would be open to do safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself? Yes, all my scenes have been bareback/raw, but thats what seems to be the major market these days. I would be open to safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself. 8.     In my prior interviews I’ve asked about the latest debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Many critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their analysis? Honestly, I feel as though the numbers have always been there with young black/latino males being infected. I just feel as of recently more people are coming forward and putting it out there because they don’t feel alone. Even though a lot of people know that they are infected but they never speak of it or go get treatment because they don’t want to face the reality of it. 9.     Another problem being brought to light about the Adult business is the rampant drug usage (PnP – Party n Play) especially with Meth, Cocaine and other drugs. During your years in the Adult Biz, did you see this first hand? Did you happen to engage in it? If so, how did you kick the habit? I personally never experienced it on set. It’s mostly off set if anyone of my co stars participated in it. I never knew and it wasn’t obvious. I am a natural freak. I don’t do any drugs, not even poppers.  10. As you know, I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! Much of the porn featuring black and latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and within the black/latino community. I would like to know your take on this! I am very excited to see where you will take your company, and cant wait to model for you. As far as the negative stereotypes in the industry, I can’t really speak on it. 11. You’re a very popular performer from your photos and videos on Xtube and Facebook, to your work with porn companies. Your sexy sway, nice body and thick dick and juicy ass are huge turn-ons for many of your fans! With that comes some negativity from some people who have a negative viewpoint on porn stars (even though they are secretly watching you. LOL) How do you handle the criticism? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I feel people get intimidated when you do what they are afraid of. I have had quite a few encounters where people have bashed me, or said something negative to me about what I do, how I carry myself, what I may practice in my sexual life, my pics, my videos they have something negative to say about it all. Funny thing is by the end of the convo, they are asking how can we hook up? I just laugh, smile and try to keep it light. 12. With all the movies you have done so far, name some porn stars you have really enjoyed working with! Seduction; he is so sexy, freaky as hell, and will make you smile. Ty lattimore; he’s such a sweetheart, and we have stayed in contact even after our work together. Knight; he is sexier in person, and his skin complexion makes me wet just looking at him, let alone to touch him. 13. For future films, which porn stars would you like to do a scene with that you haven’t had the opportunity to work with? Brklynkidd, Marcus Dupree, Brandon Hawk, Brieon, Ace Rockwood, Kris, lil Papi just to name a few lol 14. When you are doing a scene, what type of man is required for you to give an optimum performance? What I really like is someone who is verbal. I’m easily turned on so I always can give a good show if you talk nasty to me! 15. Throughout your filmography, you’ve showcased lots of versatility. You’re your private life, do you lean one way or another or truly versatile? In my private life it seems as though I top more. From my tube videos, I like to fuck ruff so it seems a lot of people want to experience that. 16. You have done 1 on 1’s, 3somes and group scenes on film. Did you prefer one on one or 3somes/group sex or did it matter?  What about in your private life? I actually enjoyed the 3some/groups more. The 1 on 1’s always seems that I’m stuck on the bottom, which I really don’t mind at all. I guess just depends on my mood. In my private life, I favor 1 on 1 more, but if I do get into a 3some/group, it is handed picked and always HOT! 17. What’s your favorite position to fuck? Or fucked?  To fuck, my favorite position is on his back. I like to see his face as I go as deep as I can and stroke his hole till he can’t take no more. Getting fucked……it definitely depends on how big the dick is because all dicks don’t feel good in the same position. 18. Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both?  I like both, but once again it just depends on how he’s using his dick. 19. Do you prefer a smooth or hairy ass?  I used to prefer smooth but lately I’ve been staring at hairy holes and bodies and its definitely keeping my dick at attention! 20. Does your family know you are in the adult film business? If so, what are their thoughts? No my family does not know. 21. Now that you have been in the adult business for some time, do you have any regrets? If you could start all over, would you go into this business? Anything in my life I have done was because I wanted to, so I have no regrets. And if I could do it again I will, but the next time might be more aggressive. 22. In the next 5 – 10 years, do you still plan to be in the adult biz or retired from all of it? If not, what are your plans after retiring from the adult biz? l’ll probably step out the lime light within the next few years. My porn career has been really sporadic so it’s here and there but since all these new sites like myvidster, xtube, peepmyporn and more and more people are seeing my work that never new I was in the industry. I plan on still being in front of the cam, but i’ll keep the vids for personal use. 23. Many of your fans know you’re involved in the Leather community. How did that come about? What interests you about the culture? Its funny because most people become “fans” when they find out I’m into leather, and after getting to know me or talking to me then they find out I’m into porn. I have always been a little different in my sexual endeavors. I felt like I was the only young black male into the kinkier side of the bedroom. After meeting “my RawLeatherDaddy” and him opening my eyes to what the community had to offer and introducing me to the right people and guiding me down the right path, I am now head first in the leather community and will never turn back. The community allows me to be myself. It offers me the safety and the nurturing that I will need to become more of a well rounded sexual adult. There is so much more to the leather community then just leather, and I think there where people hit a road block, as I did until I started exploring more. 24.  What fetishes do you get into? Would you be willing to do them on film? YES! i would love to do a film with my fetishes. I love a man that dresses in athletic gear (soccer, football, basket ball, baseball etc.). I love a man in underwear, Fisting (as a top), Watersports, Toys, outdoor/public sex. 25. I’m sure many of your admirers would love to get with you. So you know I’m going to ask…Are you single at the moment? I’m in a relationship. We’ve been together now going on 7 months! 26. How did you lose your virginity? I didn’t get pentrated till I was 18, and dumb me living in Baltimore, messing with all DL dudes, and hustlers. I met this dude on the chat line and his girlfriend was gone and he was on house arrest. So I went to his place early in the morning….skipped school that day by the way. I was 18 so I was able to write my own absent notes and we spent the whole day trying to get me used to taking dick.Luckily he had a little dick so it was no big deal LOL, till i tried with someone else….but thats another story! 27. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you! That despite my overly sexual image, I’m very much the relationship type. I’ve only been in 3 relationships, all three exceeding 3 years. Also being raised in the church, if you come to my house and I’m just relaxing I’m usually listening to gospel music…Oh and I’m a classically trained vocalist LOL. Somethings you just gotta keep to yourself! 28. If there is anything you could change about yourself, what would it be and why? It has taken me 28 years to be happy with myself and at this stage in my life I wouldn’t change anything! 29. What hobbies do you enjoy? What do you like to do in your spare time? In my spare time, I’ve taken up photography and I’m loving every minute of it. Also I’m a trained dancer so any chance or excuse I can use to take a dance class I’m always there. 30. With the election season in full swing and there are various issues that drive people to the polls. What are some issues do you feel are most important? Least important? Right now, I feel that the most important issue is that we are losing our “land of the free” spirit that we are suppose to uphold. There are rules and laws for everything now feels like we are being imprisoned in our own nation. Least important is the law they are trying to pass in NYC about soft drinks, REALLY?!??! Someone else is trying to regulate what goes in and out of OUR bodies, when there are bigger and more pressing issues then that. 31. Gay Marriage is a hot button issue with now 8 states legalizing gay marriage. And it’s caused a mixed reaction in the African American community especially with the Black Church. What are your thoughts on Gay Marriage and the churches reaction to it? The church to me has always been hypocritical and they have very much loss the true meaning of what they are there for. The bible says “come as you are” no matter who or what you are. No matter how different, we all want and need to feel that acceptance. As far as gay marriage, I’m all for it. If you love someone, and want to spend the rest of your life with them who has the authority to say NO! You’re gay… you can’t have the same rights as the rest of the world? As much as the world changes dally, we are still being held in slavery….. 32. Here are Raw Daddy’s list of questions I ask each interviewee. ·      Name 5 of your favorite music artists Jasmine Sullivan Ledisi Common Princess P Fantaisa      What’s your favorite color? Blue ·      What’s your favorite curse word? Fuckface ·      What’s your favorite movie? The league of extraordinary gentleman ·      What do you fear the most? Not saying I gave it my all ·      Boxers or Briefs or Jocks? Jocks ·      Big Dick or Big Ass? Big Ass ·      New York City or Washington, DC New York City ·      What’s your favorite lube? Spit ·      If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why? Whitney Huston, because she was an amazing woman, and I would just want her to sing one song to me ·      If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why? My apartment because its my world, and its one of the only thing i can control. 33. Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans? Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you? Thank you for accepting me for what I am, and not what I am NOT. Always be who you are and never allow anyone to redirect or to smother you light. Let it shine because its as beautiful as you! You can hit me up on Twitter – @sniffmynuttsac

Pillow Talk with Raw Leather Daddy – Marc Dupree

This month I have the great pleasure of interviewing a popular porn star, Marc Dupree. I’ve known him for quite awhile before he stepped into the Adult Business and I must admit he is doing his thing! 🙂

Enjoy the interview!

1.     Tell us about yourself Marc (age, where you from, etc.)
   
 I am from Chicago. Born and raised!  46 years young. mmm I’m into working out, traveling, photography, a variety of things. And I love new experiences.

2.     How did you get your porn name? It’s definitely not the typical ghetto fabulous name. LOL

LOL Well I have had my porn name for a while now…well in my head. I kinda forgot where MARC came from but DUPREE is my gay mothers last name.(no it is not a house) It’s just some friends that have formed a family.

.     How were you introduced into the adult industry? How long have you been doing it?

I have been doing it a lil over two years and I knew the guy who directs and produces the site (shout out to BK) before he started the site. I always wanted to do ONE. So I called him about it. I went to NY shot two scenes and then he came to Chicago and I shot two more and here I am two years later still at it. LOL

4.     Your entrance into porn was with BlackBreeders.com (Forbidden Funk Media). How was your first day on the set? Was it all you thought it would be?

My 1st day my heart was beating out of my chest!! LOL.  It was a group scene (Five Card Studs) with 5 of us. It started out with a card playing scene and none of us really played cards so that was interesting. But once we started rolling, I just went with it and got into it.

5.     Does your family know you are in the adult film business? If so, what are their thoughts?

 No they don’t…well I take that back. I have cousin that knows.(He is gay) One of his friends told him. He hasn’t never saw my “work”!

6.     We have known each other for long time and you know that I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment, which will ensure a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! Much of the porn featuring Black and Latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and within the Black/Latino community. I would like to know your take on this!

 I really haven’t seen a lot of porn (strange huh). But the thing that gets me is the fitteds and the Do-Rags. Who wears that actually having sex? This whole “THUG” thing I don’t get but it never really floated my boat in real life.

7.     What changes would you like to see in the porn industry?
   
 Mmm I guess one thing I would like to see is the performers get a cut of the dvds or money they generate to these sites.

8.     As we talked earlier, your entrance into the Adult business was with Forbidden Funk Media. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with other major companies (i.e. Raging Stallion/Falcon, etc.)?

 I would be open to working for other companies. I have not really pursued that because this is a side gig for me. And also I have had great experiences with BlackBreeders and have heard some horror stories about other companies (not the ones you named though)

9.     All of your scenes have been bareback/raw! Is this by choice? Would be open to do safe (i.e. condom) scenes if the opportunity presented itself?

I would have to say yes by choice because that is what the site is about and I choose to do it.  I am open condoms scenes so it is ALL good (just need more lube)! LOL

10. Continuing with the Bareback/Raw sex talk, there is a big debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections in the African-American and Latino-American communities, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their criticism?  

 I don’t think anyone sees a flick and goes they doing bareback so let me go for it. I think that most folks are doing it they just say they are not. But it’s up to whomever is doing the do to either decide they want to bareback at the time they are about to get busy aad not make it an after thought. I have heard of folks doing bareback then say but next time they are using condoms.

11. Another problem being brought to light about the Adult business, and overall gay community, is the rampant drug usage (PnP – Party n Play) especially with Meth, Cocaine and other drugs. Have you seen it while working in the business? With friends within the community? Personally?

 I have not. I don’t drink or use drugs..I really don’t club. About the only thing I have seen is folks smoking weed or been in the bathroom in a club were it looked like  something was going on other then relieving themselves but in and out. That world is kinda not known to me.I have folks I know that have been on them but not sure if they still are.

12. I’m curious to know how you handle the negative comments that, unfortunately, come with the territory for those who work in the Adult Industry.
 
 Funny I was expecting to be flooded with negative comments but for the most part I have heard nothing but good positive things. The negative things I have heard were from folks who didn’t care for me before the porn thing. so I laugh it off. LOL iI am kinda thick skinned and by this age I know who I am and I love that person! So I am all good 😉

13. Name some porn stars you have really enjoyed working with!

Wow. Hmmm let me see… Champ Robinson is a very good person that is my buddy (although our three way is not on the site yet.) I need to make a call. LOL  Kyree is my porn husband because that was my 1st one on one scene. And that balcony scene wit Drae Dixsom is epic. Nothing like fucking on a balcony before the sunrise and a hurricane comes. Wade Stone’s hairy ass is a big turn on. Ok let me stop now I am feeling sum kinda way recalling all the hotness I been with..LOL

14. For future films, which porn stars would you like to do a scene with?

Oh wow mmmm I would love to shoot wit Aron Ridge. That dude is beyond hot. A tall built handsome brutha with a nice dick and phat ass. yyyeeesssss sssiiiiirrrrr!!!

15. In all of your films you have showcased great bottoming skills. J Do you wish to Top on film? Maybe a Versatile scene(s)?

 There is a group scene were I top (and the pic of me topping also has a finger up my ass go figure)  LOL. I give it to the folks that top! That is a lot of pressure on someone. Although I am versatatile in real life, I think my nerves would get the best of me if I was topping only. Versatile i can probably do!

16. You have done 1 on 1’s, 3somes and group scenes. Do you have a preference when you are doing porn? What about in your private life?

Hmmmm in a scene i guess just like like it kinda depends on whom i am wit they all can be hot!

17. What’s your favorite position to be fucked? To fuck?

 If I am fucking I love the dude on his stomach ass up and just let me go to work. When I am getting fucked… I’m not a fan of riding but whatever is working at the time is good for me

18. Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both? J  Do you prefer a smooth or hairy ass? J


 I prefer a thick dick… love girth aaammmaaazzziiinnngggg and I love hairy cracks! The checks can be smooth but I love hair in the crack.. especially right round the hole. mmmmm

19. Your work for a company that has done films with a Fetish/Leather theme (Watersports, Assplay, Leather play, etc.) Would you be willing to do it on film?  In your private life, what fetishes do you get into (if at all)?

 I am not into the WS ASSPLAY or that (sorry) just not my thang. I do like the leather look… Its hot… my fetish…  I am into man smells   pits.. balls, dick, ass crack. get me on brick fast.. I will sniff a worn pair of drawez too.

20. Are you single or in a relationship?  If you are single, are you looking to be in a relationship? If so what qualities are you looking for in a man? If you are in a relationship, how has it affected your relationship being in the adult industry?

 I am very much single and not lookin… if it happens I am cool. But I don’t feel like I need a man to complete me.

21. In the next 5 – 10 years, do you still plan to be in the adult biz or retired from all of it? If not, what are your plans after retiring from the adult biz?

 In 5 years I might be! In 10 years, I don’t think so.  hmmmm plans after retiring not sure how to answer that because this is not my main job. So prob just keep working my reg job and keep traveling!

22. How did you lose your virginity?

Wow hmmmmm let me think. Who came 1st the boy or the girl  LOL let’s see!  I sucked dick around bout the age of 9 or 10. I fucked a girl around 12 and got fucked at 13 (I hated it) thought that is what you were suppose to do.. plus he was older!

23. The election season is in full swing.  There are various topics that drive people to the polls. What are some issues do you feel are most important? Least important?

The economy is like MAJOR really i have saw so much change in my reg job it been krasi. and folks out here tryin to find something to keep their head above water.

24. You living in the Chicago area, President Obama is widely popular there. How do you feel he is doing as President?

I think he is doing wonderful. The things he is doing and has done I feel is because like he said he and Michelle did not come from folks with money. So he knew how it was. So he is doing what he can to look out for the Lil guys. ( and he lives a bout a mile and half from me) OBAMA 2012

25. Gay Marriage is a hot button issue with now 8 states legalizing gay marriage. What are your thoughts about gay marriage?

I am really ashamed to say I have been aware of some key issues but really have not been following it. I do know that if they try to make it a federal law against it that will not sit will with me. It would be like they are making me feel like a second class citizen.

26. Tell your fans what Marc likes to do for fun. What do you like to do in your spare time? Hobbies?

Oh wow!!!  i like a variety of things.. traveling.. photography.. working out, concerts. reading. watching movies, museums, roller coasters, and trying new things.

27. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!

Even though I’m versatile and bottom more on film, I top more in real life than I bottom.

28. Here are Raw Daddy’s list of questions I ask each interviewee.

·      Name 5 of your favorite music artists:

Luther Vandross, Patti LaBelle, Ledisi, Rhianna, Carrie Underwood

·      What’s your favorite color? Royal or Electric Blue

·      What’s your favorite curse word? “Fuck” cuz it has so many different meanings

·      What’s your favorite movie? “The Color Purple” ….if i have to pick one but there are a few

·      What’s your favorite song? My favorite song changes.. but right now it is “MORE” by Usher

·      What do you fear the most? Snakes. I can’t stand them! I will crap my pants.

·      Boxers or Briefs or Jocks?

Boxers, Briefs and Boxer Briefs but my favorite is commando (if hot out commando always)

·      New York City or Chicago?
   
Hands down Chicago. It’s a beautiful city and we have a bike path right along the Lake from South thru Downtown to the North. The view is to die for!

What’s your favorite lube? Wet Platinum. OMG that stuff is amazing

·      If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why?

Wow this one just recently became hard… i would give my right nut to met Michelle obama luv that lady. But I have always said Harriet Tubman that lady was no joke and risked her life over and over for the freedom of others.

·      If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why?

Wow. I would have to say Sydney although I have not been there yet. iI really want to visit that city bad.

29. Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best in all your endeavors. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans? Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you?

They can reach me on Twitter @MarcDupreePorn  and on Facebook – Marc Dupree

ONYX – BLACKOUT 16 – Oct. 7-9, 2011

ONYX Southeast along with our sponsor, Forbidden Funk Media, will be hosting ONYX’s annual Leather event – BLACKOUT 16, Oct 7-9, 2011 in Augusta, GA at the Parliament House.

Weekend packages are $115. If you can only make one day, our Saturday day pass is only $60.

You can get information about BLACKOUT 16 events and purchase the package at the BLACKOUT 16 website by clicking here!

We hope to see you there!

ONYX – BLACKOUT 16 – Oct. 7-9, 2011

ONYX and our co-sponser Forbidden Funk is proud to announce ONYX’s annual leather weekend – “BLACKOUT 16”. It’ll be in Augusta, GA at the famous Parliament House from Oct. 7 thru Oct. 9, 2011.

You can go to Black Leather Pride website and get information on our weekend schedule and pay for your weekend package that is $99. Room not included. There is a link to Parliament House where you can reserve your room!