“Pillow Talk” with Seraph


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This edition of “Pillow Talk” I had the pleasure to talk with another friend of mine from the Northwest part of the country and up and coming porn star that burst out into the scene last year with a great scene from BlackBreeders. From his initial scene, he was an instant hit with fans. But many folks know of him from his provocative photos posted on various blog sites! So his transition to doing porn was pretty much a given. His sexy looks, lean hairy inked body, juicy ass and thick long uncut dick along with his healthy sexual appetite has made him a sought after porn star! I had an opportunity to talk with Seraph recently about his upbringing in the Seattle area, his love of music and dance, his experience in the military and so much more in this in – depth interview. I hope you enjoy!!!   

1.  Many of your fans would like to know more about you. So tell us about yourself… How old are you? What was your childhood like? Etc.

My name is Nicholas (aka “Seraph”) and I’m 26 years old. I’m was born and raised in Seattle WA. I had a very happy yet somewhat sheltered childhood. I’m the middle sibling of my older brother (7 years older) and younger sister (2 years younger). So I had my privacy and independence growing up. I was very mature for my age and what folks would call “a square” lol. In school I was the quiet shy nerd in high-water pants that hardly talked and always had my big jacket and hood on trying to hide myself. My focus was school and music, starting clarinet in the 4th grade and moving up to Alto sax in 5th. I joined the marching and symphonic band from middle school to high school until my junior year I switched to concert choir where I sang baritone/bass and I also joined dance team. I was voted “most Unique” and “best Dancer” for my class. I was friends with everyone in school but I never had that group that I belonged to myself. I just went str8 to school, band/ choir events, dance practice, and played video games. Since I didn’t hang with kids outside of school my main influences were my family.

2.  Many might not know you’re from the Seattle area. Lots of us don’t think there too many of “us” in the Northwest Region of the Country LOL. What is the gay scene like in the Seattle area? Especially for Men of Color?

LOL very true we are here just hidden in spots. I never been anywhere else so I don’t have anything to compare Seattle’s gay scene to. I just know that when I came onto the gay scene at age 23 I didn’t know any of these dudes. Everything is in Downtown Seattle if you wanna find the gay “Posse’ on Broadway St. and Pike. if you like Pale white men, Seattle is perfect lol. Most of the Snow bunnies are in Seattle and if you want to find black men into black men, you gotta go south to Rainier Beach/Renton or Federal Way/ Tacoma.


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3.  As we got to know each other over the last couple of years, you told me you were in the military. If you care to share, which branch were you in and how was your experience serving our country?

I was in the Marines from 2006 to 2008. It was ok.. it wasn’t for me.  I only joined because I needed to find a means to pay for college. I was expecting more organization and efficiency instead of the “be on time to sit and wait”. I got “recruited” by false means, being told that if I ever went to Iraq that i would be doing my Military occupational skill (MOS) as Warehouse Clerk/Supply, but that wasn’t the case when I got sent to do infantry/base security in Habbaniya, Iraq in 2008′ . I did have some fun times with my fellow enlisted Marines!

4.  Did you have some “Hot” times with some of your fellow military brothers? 

NOOOOO lol. “Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell” was still around and I was still hiding it myself and a virgin at the time. I was in boot camp when I learned that I had a nice size piece lol. it was awkward all of us showering together and then this dude walks up and asks “what’s it like having a big dick?” in front of everyone, like its regular conversation. Everyone starts to join in talking about it, another guy asked me to shake it LOL. Multiple dudes saying I should do porn and couldn’t believe I was a virgin. LOL. So, I ended up being known for that. Even in Iraq, the Marines saying “oh Reed’s here, we gotta go now before he makes us look bad”. Folks I haven’t met knew about my dick. So folks were talking but I kept it quiet and didn’t try anything.

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5.  Many people were introduced to you from your provocative photos and videos on various Blogs, Twitter and Facebook. Have you always been such an exhibitionist?

I have always been an exhibitionist but in private around certain people. I wasn’t open about it until I got comfortable being open in public because I didn’t want any problems or attention on me or to make others around me uncomfortable. So the desire was there but wasn’t trying to make myself a pariah.

6. Did you always have a desire to do porn? If so, do you believe your blog, twitter, etc. was the launching pad for you to get your start in the porn business?

No it wasn’t something I thought of as a career. I just wanted to do it for the enjoyment of making a video and if i’m doing it for free for fun, why not get paid for it? The pictures were the start to adult modeling not full on porn. I was first adding self-photos on Flickr and a photographer named Malik Williams introduced me to ModelMayhem, which is where I met the photographers i worked with such as Andrew Adam Caldwell, a local photographer in Seattle who does the majority of my shoots and other shoots with models/porn stars such as Kory Kong and Buster Sly. Through ModelMayhem, I ended up networking with other models and eventually it crossing over to Facebook and Twitter.

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7. Your introduction to porn was with BlackBreeders.com and you were partnered with legendary top “Champ Robinson”. How was your experience working with him? BlackBreeders.com?

Working with Champ Robinson was wonderful. He was my co-star in my first scene and he made things go smoothly and made me feel comfortable and  the shoot enjoyable. As far as Blackbreeders? I’m thankful for the opportunity but its not the place for me. I enjoyed meeting all the models and would enjoy working with them again elsewhere.

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8. Your porn name “Seraph” is very unique. How did you come up with that name?

I got the name from a Final Fantasy 7 character whose name, Sephiroth (one winged angel), was inspired by the word Seraph which is a 6 winged angel. I just like the story behind Seraphim and what they represent in the very little info that there is on them and it was a different sounding name.

9. With you becoming more known in gay porn via your blogs and now the scene from BlackBreeders.com, I’m curious to know if any of your family knows about the video and all the photos? LOL If so, what are their thoughts?

OMG LOL… I don’t know about the videos but they know about the photos. My brother found out and joked about it but its not something that we talk about. I don’t talk about it and they haven’t asked so I can’t say how they feel exactly.

10. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with other “Urban” (i.e. RawStrokes, Machofucker, etc.) or “mainstream” (i.e. Lucas Entertainment, Raging Stallion/Falcon, etc.) companies?

I’m open to other “Urban” companies and possibly “mainstream” if there’s a good vibe with the company, models and their videos.

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11. We have talked about the upcoming launch of my company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! The purpose is to combat the lingering negative stereotypes (i.e. thug) of Men of Color perpetuated by both whites and black/latinos porn companies. What is your take on this?

I agree with you. It be great to show the diversity within gay men of color that paints a more honest picture of us. The racial vibe in both “Urban” and “mainstream” porn is apparent, which is one of the reasons i was hesitant in doing porn cuz i dont know how to act like a thug and some of the white porn is degrading.

12. From your experiences in the industry thus far, what are some things you would like to see change within the porn industry?

The same thing we need everywhere else. Better pay. Better model treatment. Ive only stuck my toe in so i cant say much from my experience and i cant just go off of one bad experience with one company.

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13. Your introduction into porn is with a company that specializes in bareback/raw! Was this by choice and would be open to do safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself?

Yes I chose to do bareback and Im open to “safe scenes” as well.

14. In my prior interviews, I’ve asked about the ongoing debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Many critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections in the gay/bi community, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their opinions?

There’s always gonna be people who want to copy so I’m sure it has influenced a lot but I don’t think it encourages bareback as in telling folks its ok to do. its entertainment and you gotta be responsible for your own sexual practices and know  the risks.

15. We all have a type of guy that turns us on sexually. For you to give the best in a video, and in general, what type of guy(s) are you sexually attracted to?

I really like men with dark features and a quiet confidence and someone who can smile. I love hairy dudes if the hair’s right lol. I’m turned on more by attitude than just looks.

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16. Which porn stars would you love the opportunity to work with in future videos?

I would love to possibly work with Jordan Stone, Woo, Marc Dupree, Ty Lattimore, Buster Sly and many more. 🙂

17. What I, along with your fans, find sexy about you is that you exhibit a natural masculinity and you’re very passionate with your sex! However, we have only seen you bottom (so far). Are you willing to be versatile or top on film?  In your private life, are you versatile or lean more towards to top or bottom?

I’d very much like to be versatile or top on film so that I’d have something besides the one homemade vid of me lol. I’m fully versatile in my private life.

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18.  In your first video, you did a 1-1 scene. Would you be open to do 3some/Group sex on film? How about in your private life?

Yup!!! The interracial scenes i did with blackbreeders were a 5some and a 3some. I enjoy group activities but not with selfish people in it. My best 3ways I have had were with couples.

19. Do you prefer to fuck a guy with a smooth or hairy ass? When being fucked, do you prefer a guy’s dick to be long or thick or both?

I love hairy ass! Smooth is good too. I just like the natural hair and smell. As for dick, I like both long and thick dick…deep in my second hole lol. 🙂 To me it feels better with more girth.

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20. Fetish films (i.e. Leather, Spanking, Piss, etc.) are becoming very popular. Yet you haven’t done any on film. Are you willing to do any on film?  If so, what fetishes would you want to explore on film and in your private life?

I love natural man scents. Love the smell of musty balls. Also love hairy men. I’m also into fisting and watersports!

21. I’m sure some of your fans would love to know your relationship status. Is Seraph single and looking? Or is he “Boo’d” up? LOL!

I’m currently single and not looking at the moment, let me find some friends first and then progress from there.

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22. Porn careers are usually short lived. How long do you see yourself being in the adult industry? What are your plans upon retiring from the porn industry?

I have no clue.  As long as its fun and I’m enjoying whats being made, I’ll keep doing it, even if that means making my own videos!

23. During your spare time, what are some of your hobbies/interests?

I do enjoy music and dance in my free time. I sing, do martial arts choreography lol…play xbox 360 games (Gamertag: Dr R0b0tNick spelled with zeroes) and just like to kick back with friends and family and relax and smoke a few bowls.

24. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!

Damn I don’t know whats left to share that could shock folks. i like to eat Balut (duck egg) lol

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25. If there is anything you could change about yourself, what would it be and why?

Being naive and too trusting. i like to see the good in people even though its at my own expense sometimes.

26. Just recently the U.S. Supreme Court has upheld the lower courts decision on Same Sex Marriage in California. It’s now legal in 13 states, including your home state of Washington, and DC. What are your views on Same Sex Marriage? Do you see yourself getting married in the future?

I believe its everyones right to get married and someday I hope to get married but probably with a prenup.

27. Here are Daddy Rod’s list of “Quickee” questions I ask each interviewee.

  • Name 5 of your favorite music artists/or actors – I really enjoy Sade, Michael Jackson, Pharell williams, Daft Punk, and Nobuo Uematsu
  • What’s your favorite color? – Black
  • What’s your favorite movie? Star wars episode 4-6 the originals
  • What’s your favorite song? Michael Jackson’s “They Don’t Care About Us”
  • What’s your favorite curse word?  I like the word fuck in the positive context lol
  • Boxers or Briefs or No Underwear? I switch up from time to time so I’m either freeballing or wearing a thong, jock, or briefs
  • What’s your favorite lube? I stick with Wet but i haven’t tried many other lubes
  • If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why? If I had the chance to meet any Celeb, I would want to meet Andre Benjamin and make some music with him! I just enjoy his craft and style.
  • If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why? I would want to be somewhere with tropical weather like Maui. It’s always warm and I don’t have to where much clothes.

28. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans? Do you have a website, blog or Twitter where your fans can reach you?

Thank you to all those that support me and i hope to be able to put out more of my work for ya’ll. you can find me on:

Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/Nickscorpio,

Twitter:@seraph86 (Nicholas Reed),

tumblr: seraphnick.tumblr.com

google+: http://gplus.to/seraphreed.

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“Pillow Talk” with Daemon Sadi


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Daemon Sadi might be a new face to some of you who love porn but he has actually been doing it awhile. Having working with several porn companies the last few years, he has been more active over the last year or so with Breed Me Raw/Raw Joxxx. I’ve known him for awhile from our involvement in the Leather/BDSM Community and I knew how freaky he was. LOL. So his transition to doing porn was pretty much a given. I had the opportunity to have a good interview with him talking about a range of topics and also seeing who Daemon Sadi is behind the screen. I do hope you enjoy the interview!!!

 

  1. Tell us about yourself. Where are you from? How old are you? What was your childhood like? Etc.
    • I’m originally from Wilmington, NC where I was born and raised.  I went to college for two years, then joined the USMC but only stayed in for two years and six months because I decided to come out of the closet (back then Don’t Ask/Don’t Tell was still in effect).  After I left the military I stayed in NC for a year then moved to NYC in 2004 where I lived for seven years.  In 2010, I meet a great guy; we dated for a year before I moved to FL to live with him which is where I’m at now.
  2. Your porn name is very unique. How did you get your porn name “Daemon Sadi”?
    • Thank you, I got my porn name from one of my favorite books in the world written by Anne Bishop.  The title of the book series is called the “Black Jewels Trilogy”.  One of the main characters is this guy named Daemon Sadi and he’s supposed to be this tall, dark, sexy, seductive, mysterious character with these dark powers.  I dreamed that I was like him so when I started to do porn, I figured that he would be my perfect alter ego.
  3. You’re relatively a newbie to the gay porn business.  I believe you started out with Forbidden Funk/Black Breeders.  From there, you have worked with Thug Mania, ThreshHold Media and now recently with Raw Joxxx/Breed Me Raw.  How has your experiences been in the porn business so far? Anything you were surprised to see? (The good? The bad? The ugly?)
    • You’re right that I’m very new to the porn industry.  I got involved mainly because I wanted to have fun, and to leave somewhat of a legacy behind once I’m dead and gone.  Well, since I don’t plan to be in politics or become a real actor/movie star, doing porn was my next choice.  Besides, I love having sex so why not do it on camera.  As far as my experiences thus far in the business, I would say that I’ve had a good run so far.  I’ve worked with good guys who I was sexually attracted to and was able to develop some type of chemistry with while filming.  Also, I’ve worked with good producers that paid well for the films.  I’ve realized that not everyone pays the same, but it all depends on how big the company is.  However, I really not doing this to become rich and famous, just doing it to have fun and enjoy myself with some other hot, sexy guys.
  4. With you becoming more known in gay porn, I’m curious to know if any of your family knows you are in the porn business. If so, what are their thoughts?
    • Honestly, I have no idea if my family knows that I’m in porn and really don’t care if they do.  It’s my life & I live it the way that I see fit.
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  5. Some people can have a one-dimensional view of men who do porn. What would you say are some of the misconceptions people have about you?
    • Not sure what misconceptions that people would have about me.  However, if people wanted me to tell them the kind of guy that I am is that I’m a melting pot of personalities all mixed into one.  I’m out going, fun, crazy, weird, silly, and extroverted.  It all depends on who I’m with and where I’m at.
  6. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with other mainstream companies (i.e. Lucas Entertainment, Raging Stallion/Falcon, etc.)?
    • Yes, I’d love to work with other mainstream companies if given the chance.  I don’t think that I will do because this is mainly just something I do for fun and not trying to make a career out of it like some other hard core porn stars.
  7. We have talked in the past about me launching a company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn!  The purpose is to combat the lingering negative stereotypes (i.e. thug) of Men of Color perpetuated by both whites and black/latinos porn companies.  What is your take on this?
    • Well considering since I’m far from being a “thug” (I’m more of a nerd if you really wanted to know) so I think that having a company that changes the way men of color is viewed in porn is a good idea.  Also, I’d love to be part of this change as well.
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  8. From your experiences in the industry thus far, what are some things you would like to see change within the porn industry?
    • Well I’d like to see more men of color being filmed in more mainstream porn companies.
  9. Since your introduction into porn, all but one of your scenes has been bareback/raw!  Is this by choice or would be open to do safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself?
    • To be honest, I really prefer raw sex especially since I’m HIV +, but I’m not against playing safe.  I just prefer to be up front and honest about my status and let who ever I’m playing with decided for them-selves if we play safe or raw. 
  10. There is an on-going big debate on whether or not people viewing Bareback/Raw porn promotes “unsafe” sexual practices. Some conclude that viewers watching this type of porn have caused the rise in HIV infections in the gay/bisexual community especially within the Black/Latino community. What are your thoughts on this?
    • Look, we’re all adults here and we can make decisions for ourselves when it comes to health and how we choose to live our lives.  Just because we watch people have “unsafe” sex doesn’t mean we will go out there and do it ourselves.  In this day and age, we all know the health risks involved in playing unsafe.  If we play unsafe then that’s a decision that we make for ourselves and we live with the consequences of that decision.  It’s not because we watched some hot guys fuck that way.
  11. During your porn career, you have worked with some sexy men. Which porn stars have you really enjoy working with thus far?
    • Lex Antoine, Santiago Rodriguez, Tyler Reed
  12. I think if we are honest with ourselves, we all have a type of guy that turns us on sexually. For you to give the best in a video, and in general, what type of guy(s) are you sexually attracted to?
    • Guys who are shape, have a great personality (someone I can feel comfortable with offset), likes to kiss, and enjoys sex as much as I do.  It also helps when the person is able to just go with the flow and not try to force the sex.
  13. Which porn stars would you love the opportunity to work with?
    • Angel Rock, Jimmy Durano, Marc Dylan, Topher DiMaggio, Race Cooper, Austin Wilde, Sean Zevran, Chris Gabriel, Juan Steel, Lawson Kane, Marcus Ruhl, and Vito Gallo (I think I can go on for days) LOL! LOL!
  14. What I find sexy about you is that not only do you exude a natural masculinity, but you also showcase great versatility in your scenes. When not on film, are you equally versatile, or lean more towards the top or bottom?
    • Total versatile here.  Was blessed with a nice dick and a big bubble but (so I’ve heard), so might as well use what I was given.
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  15. With your film work, you have done only 1-1 scenes. Would you be open to do 3some/Group sex on film? How about in your private life, do you prefer 1-1? 3somes/Groups?
    • I’m open to 3somes, and group sex both off and on film.
  16. Do you prefer to fuck a guy with a smooth or hairy ass? When being fucked, do you prefer a guy’s dick to be long or thick or both?
    • If I’m going to eat a guy’s ass out, I’d prefer it to be smooth, however if I’m just fucking it, then it doesn’t matter either way.  As far as a guy’s dick I’d prefer one that is a little of both considering I have a big ass and you got to have enough meat to get pass my cheeks.
  17. Many of your fans might not know you’re involved in the Leather community. And also a former Leather titleholder (i.e. Leather Man of Color 2010). How were you introduced into the community? What interests you about the culture? What fetishes are you into?
    • I had sex with a guy who wanted to tie me up and that after that encounter I realized how much I loved bondage.  I decided that I wanted to learn more about the leather/fetish scene so I joined ONYX NY to discover what else I liked.  I soon discovered that I wanted to be a boy and had the desire to server someone, but that hasn’t worked out for me as of yet.  Anyway, I also learned that I loved to be spanked, wearing leather, military uniforms, sports gear, and just having a good time.
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  18. So far in your porn career, you have done some film work involving fetish play (mainly dildo play) with BlackBreeders.com and Threshold Media.  What other fetishes would you be open to do on film?
    • BONDAGE & SPANKING!!!!
  19. I’m sure some of my readers would love to know your relationship status.  Is Daemon single and looking? Or is he “Boo’d” up? LOL!
    • I’m taken but in an open relationship
  20. If you are in a relationship, has your work in the adult industry been a problem when you initially started dating? (answer only if you are currently in relationship)
    • Well it really wasn’t a problem when we first started dating because I really wasn’t doing any filming.  I know my partner isn’t total happy with it all but he loves me and he knows that I love him more than life itself.
  21. Porn careers are usually short lived. How long do you see yourself being in the adult industry? What are your plans upon retiring from the industry?
    • Maybe for another year or two.  I have a career outside of the industry so I’ll just focus on that.
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  22. During your spare time, what are some of Daemon hobbies/interests?
    • I’m a total nerd and book worm.  I love playing video games (I have two PS3s, an Xbox, and WiiU & and I can’t wait till the PS 4 comes out later this year).  I also have tons of books that I love to read.  Mainly like reading fantasy novels or gay paranormal romance books on my kindle.  I’m also going to school for Information Technology so I’m studying as well.
  23. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!
    • I’m a dancing fool and I can’t sing to save my life.
  24. If there is anything you could change about yourself, what would it be and why?
    • There’s nothing I would change.  It’s taken me a long time to love myself for whom & what I am (which includes the good & the bad).  So in the famous words of RuPaul: “If you can’t love yourself, then how can you love someone else.”
  25. Just recently the U.S. Supreme Court has upheld the lower courts decision on Same Sex Marriage in California. It’s now legal in 13 states and DC. What are your views on Same Sex Marriage? Do you see yourself marrying your boyfriend?
    • Love is love & we should all have the right to marry who we love.  Yes one day I see myself getting married to my boyfriend.
  26. Here are Daddy Rod’s list of “Quickee” questions I ask each interviewee.
  • Name 5 of your favorite music artists/or actors
    • Michael Jackson, Janet Jackson, Roybn, Cher, & Whitney Houston
    • Bettie White, Forrest Whittaker, Jennifer Lopez, Jennifer Hudson, Halle Berry
  • What’s your favorite color?
    • Blue
  • What’s your favorite movie?
    • Dream Girls
  • What’s your favorite song?
    • 4 Page Letter by Aaliyah
  • What’s your favorite curse word?
    • Fuck
  • What do you fear the most?
    • Horror Movies
  • Boxers or Briefs or No Underwear
    • NO UNDERWEAR
  • What’s your favorite lube?
    • Gun Oil
  • New York or Florida?
    • Love them both: NY has the night life, while FL has the perfect weather
  • If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why?
    • Hugh Jackman
  • If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why?
    • Amsterdam because it has a huge leather scene
  1. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans? Do you have a website, blog or Twitter where your fans can reach you?
    • Thank you for watching me and being my fan.  I hope you enjoyed my films and I’m glad I could add to your sexual fantasies.  I’m sorry that I don’t a website, blog or Twitter at the moment but who knows, that may change some time in the future.

Thanks so much for taking time out to talk with me. Peace and Blessings to you!!!

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Fetish of the Month – Dildo Play


TOYS

Dildos, butt plugs, vibrators, ben-wah balls, anal beads…to a few of you that may sound like a kinky wish list, but most of us have probably incorporated a toy in at least one sexual experience. Dildo play can also add another dimension when playing with others.

If you are a bottom, it is best to bring your own toys to a scene and make sure they are not used to penetrate others.


If you are playing in a scene where there may be other’s toys, mark toys so they don’t get confused.

If you share toys, treat them just like a dick. Use condoms and appropriate lubricants when using toys to penetrate different partners, and change condoms each time you change holes.



Toys should be cleaned after (and preferably) before use. Unclean toys can transmit HIV, as well as other sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Soap and warm water is a must for cleaning most sex toys. But remember, sex toys are made of many materials (including rubber, latex, silicone, leather, and glass), and some are not waterproof. It is important to consult the directions on your product before cleaning. There are also cleaning solutions available specifically for adult toys.


Remove batteries from toys when cleaning or storing. Between use, toys should be wrapped separately in clean cloths.


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Fetish of the Month – Fisting



FISTING



If fisting is something you wanna get your hands on (or should we say in) there’s a lot to know; Assholes are naturally tight, and fisting can cause more serious tears in the rectum than most sexual activities. Fisting requires skill, time, and patience. But when it’s done right, fisting can create one of the most intense connections (literally and figuratively) between partners.

  • Nitrite gloves are the best for fisting. If fisting multiple partners, change gloves each time you change holes.
  • Lube, lube, and MORE FUNKIN’ LUBE!!! The asshole and the glove both need to be well lubricated. If wearing latex gloves, make sure to use water-based lubes that will not erode latex. But if you are wearing nitrite gloves you have a lot more options!
  • If you are planning to get fisted, relaxation through meditation and practice (without the aid of drugs) is an ideal way to prepare the rectum to receive a fist.

  • Do not attempt to give or receive an entire fist immediately. Work up to the fisting by using your tongue, fingers, toys…even the head of your dick (covered with a condom, of course) to spread and massage the rectal cavity and get it ready for your fists!

  • Pace yourself, and work with your partner to coordinate the movement of the fist into (and in) the rectal cavity).



  • Don’t fist if your fingernails are long and/or jagged because they can damage the glove as well as the bottom’s rectum. Make sure fingernails are cut short and filed evenly.
  • Do not use a bare hand with an open wound or hangnail(s).
  • When pulling out (as with condoms), make sure to grab the open end of the glove so that it doesn’t slip off.




For more about FISTING: The RedRight Web: http://www.winternet.com/~redright/newredright.html