Orlando Cruz – Openly Gay Boxer

Orlando Cruz, a featherweight boxer from Puerto Rico, came out the closet recently to be a role model for LGBT youth. You can read more about it here.

Mad kudos to him. Definitely have to watch his fights and support him!

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Pillow Talk with Raw Daddy – Robby Mendez


This month’s edition of Pillow Talk, I have the privilege to interview one of the hottest bottoms in the porn scene, Robby Mendez. He is a really cool guy from the West Coast and super sexy! 🙂


Enjoy our interview!


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1. Tell us about yourself Robby (age, where you from, etc.)

I was born in Yucatan Mexico and moved to the US on February 2001 to Bellevue, Washington where I met my first boyfriend, who was in the Navy! Then I moved to California with him (Sonoma County) I was with him for 4 years, after breaking up I decided to move to Los Angeles, so I packed all my things in my car and drove here in October 2008 (Columbus day) I was searching for a new home. I’m very happy in Los Angeles! Right now I’m 28 Years old.

2. How did you get your porn name?

You are right, only a few people know my real name. I ask my friends to call me Robby Mendez so they all know me as that. It was my ex-boyfriends idea. I always love Robby and he said since you like doing men, he told me once…” Robby does men, Robby Men does” (I agree, I do men, a lot lol). So we combined Men does to formed Mendez. Since that my name is been Robby Mendez. I don’t have another name unless you buy me an airline ticket or book me a hotel room.

3. How were you introduced into the adult industry? Were you an escort first or an adult movie performer first?

I was a gogo Dancer for Club Papi in San Francisco and they asked me to do a solo video for latinboyz.com so I agreed. They liked me so much so I did an action scene for them. After that ,I love porn. How long have you been doing it?

4. How long have you been doing it? Was it all you thought it would be?

I been doing porn since I moved to California in 2004. And No, I’m actually planning to quit soon! That’s why I got my own studio! I love being behind the camera more than anything.

5. What was your first day on the set of porn movie like?

I was very nervous, especially because I knew the latinboyz.com site and I knew they were good and popular, but Ken was very nice and professional so that helped a lot. My ex-boyfriend actually took me to the offices and Ken drove me to the house were we did the video. it was a great experience!

6. Does your family know you are in the adult film business?

Some do, especially my twin sister. She’s my best friend and she knows everything about me and sometimes we even talk about my clients or videos. All my friends and family know I’m a gogo dancer and a masseur, but only my sister and mom knows I escort. I love her and she loves me back.

7. Recently you have launched your own website (www.robbymendez.com) and your company, JCRM Enterprises that features films with you in the starring role. What prompted you to start your company? How is business going for you?

I always had my site since I moved to Los Angeles my first video was release in 2008, but I just got my business partner (My second ex-boyfriend) and wanted to make it bigger so we got a new server, new content and models and launched the new site September 2011. So it is new and its growing every day.

8. When we I reached out to you recently, I let you know that I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! Much of the porn featuring black and latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and within the black/latino community. I would like to know your take on this!

Go man, I’m happy you are doing something about it, we are getting popular, but we do need all the support we can get. I love my mixed guys and its sad to see mainly white porn out there. I think we are hotter and with more passion sexually that other race LOL

9. What changes would you like to see in the porn industry?

More mixed guys and more hot action, I do love a good fuck scene, but also I love some story line on the videos, the models don’t even have to talk, but it will be nice to see more things that just pure sex, uniforms, different sets and crazy positions lol (My own point of view)

10. What has your experience been like working with a smaller studios (i.e. RawStrokes)

Rawstrokes.com is not that small, Marco Paris is doing a great job and he’s always nice, professional and fun. I have no complains about him, except that he always get the biggest cocks in the porn industry (Most of the time is extra painful 🙂 I work for other companies and rawstrokes is one of the best so far.

11. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with major companies (i.e. Raging Stallion/Falcon, Treasure Island, etc.)? If so, what would be the criteria before you work with them?

Sure. Just hot Sex and hot guys! And please don’t act big, we know you are big studios, but when you start acting like you own the world then the fun is gone and the hot sex is gone with your attitude. I do hope some day my studio will be big and I still want to treat my models with respect and make them feel comfortable! There is nothing worse than coming to a studio and and people making you feel small, at least for that day you are the star, that’s my way of saying thanks to my models.

12. Since your introduction into porn, most of your scenes have been predominately bareback/raw! Is this by choice or would you do more safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself?

That’s what sells more, but yes I prefer safe sex.

13. As I’ve asked other porn stars, there is a big debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Many critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their analysis?

I will always love bareback sex videos and I DO NOT think it encourages unprotected sex, we are all responsible of our own bodies and sex education is quite big in this country, there’s always a risk performing bareback sex, so as long as you know that there’s not reason to have less bareback hot sex on film. Just remember HIV is not the only bad thing out there and always play safe.

14. I’m curious to know how you have handle some of the negative comments that I’m sure you have read from people because you perform in porn movies and you escort. We all know, these are the same people who are probably jacking their dick to you being fucked on film. LOL. So how do you handle it?

I do have some fans, and some other guys who hate me, mainly because they see my scenes and they want bb sex, most of the times those guys don’t know how to handle a NO, so they get upset and they call me names. I used to get upset for things like that. Now I just let it go and if they keep bugging me I either block them or keep ignoring them until they give up. My life is mine and my time is gold to wasted on people like that. I always give a second chance, if you screw it twice you will probably never hear from me.

15. With all the movies you have done so far, name some porn stars you have really enjoyed working with!

Hot Rod, Antonio Biaggi, Ethan Roberts, Adam Russo and Mr. Marky.

16. What porn stars that you haven’t had the opportunity to work with would you like to do a scene with?

I don’t really follow a lot of porn stars, so it will be kool to meet new ones.

17. In all of your films you have been a power bottom. Are you a power bottom, in private life? Do you fuck as well (i.e. versatile)?

lol, I love getting fuck, but I also love fucking and rimming a big ass. I could eat ass for hours. I consider myself very versatile. Of course in porn I have to be a bottom because I don’t have a big cock and believe me I don’t mind it at all.

18. You have done both 1 on 1’s, 3somes and group scenes. When you are working either in porn or escorting, do you prefer one on one or 3somes/group sex or does it matter? What about in your private life?

In porn and escorting, I prefer one to one. Too many people makes it complicated and extra painful (some times those scenes are more than 3 hours long) my hole gets tired after 2 hours. I used to have a sex party once a month and it was the best in Los Angeles. I do love groups like that because everybody is having fun (Only on my personal life though) I still do one on one with escort and porn.

19. What’s your favorite position to be fucked?

On my belly so I can feel the cock rubbing my cheeks and my hole at the same time! Sometimes it makes me cum without touching myself.

20. Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both?

I prefer thick because I love feeling my hole stretch and of course if it long too, the better for me. J

21. In a few of your films I see you ventured out into some fetish play. Some piss play. Leather-BDSM play, etc. What fetishes do you get into? What do you want to learn more about?

I did some of those LOL. I think I want to do more piss and FF as a top and now as a bottom. I don’t think I can get a hand in my hole but I’m willing to try.


22. Recently, I’ve noticed on your Facebook page, you have been photographed with a sexy guy named Mr. Rocket. You later told me this is your boyfriend. How did you two meet? How long have you two been together?

That’s the past now 😦 But I don’t mind talking about it. Like I said to some of my friends, I enjoy the moment even if it last for a week, a month or a year. We met through my business partner. He did a solo for my studio and then an action scene with me.

23. I saw your ad on www.rentboy.com with a photo of you and Mr. Rocket . Did you escort as a team only or work both individually and as team?

We used to work either way, now its back to just me.

24. With both of you in the adult biz, did that put any more pressure on your relationship?

We didn’t have a single problem about that, we both new about our work and we both respected that.

25. In the next 5 – 10 years, do you still plan to be in the adult biz or retired from all of it? If not, what are your plans after retiring from the adult biz?

I see myself at a house in Mexico close to the beach. Hopefully my website will be bringing enough money to let me do that. I hope it does because I have good ideas and my memberships are the cheapest on the market.

26. How did you lose your virginity?

hahaha, seriously? LOL I went to a boarding school for boys when I was 13 to 16 years old. All the boys were extra horny at that time. I had more action than now. We all fucked each other and it didn’t matter if they were gay or not! I’m pretty sure 90 percent of those boys are married now and living a straight life. I had cock every where and sex every where, from closets to roof tops, classrooms, kitchen, at the beach (we were 2 blocks from the ocean). Sometimes I stayed a month long there because I was bad! my mom got used to that and when you are alone and horny with other boys, sex has to happen. So I lost my virginity with my love Marco when I was 13, the best experience of my life.

27. What hobbies do you enjoy? What do you like to do in your spare time?

Movies, I love them at home and at the movie theaters, also I enjoy music and dancing, but mainly to entertain my friends. I love having them over my place from time to time.

28. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!

I love girls. If I find the perfect one I might even get married and have kid with her.

With the election season in full swing and politics becoming so divisive, what issue(s) are most important to you? Least important?

29. Not really into politics, sorry. Even if I say something about it, living in this country for 10 years made me realize that the government always does whatever they want.

30. Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you?

www.robbymendez.com

www.facebook.com/mexitoy

www.twitter.com/robbymendez

31. Here are Raw Daddy’s list of questions I ask each interviewee.

•. Name 5 of your favorite music artists Gloria Trevi, Alejandra Guzman, Miguel Bose, Enrique Iglesias and Julieta Venegas

•. What’s your favorite color? White

•. What’s your favorite curse word? Fuck

•. What’s your favorite movie? Captain America

•. What do you fear the most? Snakes

•. Boxers or Briefs or No Underwear lately boxers

•. New York City or Los Angeles Los Angeles

•. What’s your favorite lube? wet Milenium

•. If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why? Pedro Infante. He’s from the 60’s in Mexico. He’s movies are always good and he look so down to earth.

•. If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why? My home town, in Yucatan Mexico. I miss my mommy lol

Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans?

Please don’t be shy to reach out to me, I’ll do my best to make you part of my life even if its just to say hi. I love you all and you make me feel really good when I hear from you and I know you like my work! It gives me more energy to do more!

And please join my website you won’t regret it www.robbymendez.com

Muah!


Pillow Talk with Raw Daddy: Nandito



This month’s edition of Pillow Talk, I had the privilege to interview one of the hottest bottoms in the porn scene, Nandito. He is a super cool guy and super sexy! 🙂


Enjoy our interview!



1. Tell us about yourself Nandito (age, where you from, etc.)

My name is Nandito. I was born and raised in Mexico City and I just turned 33 years old last Dec. 5. I’ve been living in New York for a little over 10 years and loving it. Having the time of my life!!

I’m very independent, a surviver, a fighter and a go-getter. I’m very faithful and loyal to those I love and care for. I believe in respecting others and earning your own respect.

I also believe that life is short therefore I live everyday of my life as it was the last. Always trying to do good because the power of the universe will get back to you if you don’t.


2. How did you get your porn name?


My full name is Nandito Torreblanca. I took my first name (Nandito) from a tv show I used to watch back home. Torreblanca is in honor of a good friend (who happens to be a hoe) haha! (just joking) Much love to “P.T. The best”, who is my best friend and one of my biggest supporters.

I only like and go by Nandito though.


3. How were you introduced into the porn industry? How long have you been doing it?


When I first came to New York, I was working for all these different sex parties and sex clubs. There I was approached a few times to do porn. I thought about it for a while until I decided that I wanted to do it. I first did 3 scenes for macho fucker in 2009. Had a nice experience; I left and last year 2011, went back to shoot 2 more scenes for them.


4. Once you started doing porn, was it all you thought it would be?


It’s kind of a bitter sweet taste. By being in the porn industry I have met some people that I used to only watch only on tv … and jerk off to them. LOL. By being in the industry I have not only met them in person, but also hang out with some of them, which gives me the opportunity to get to know the “real person” and not just the porn star that makes me fantasize.


On the other hand, it’s a little disappointing to see that some companies use boys who are clearly in need to exploit them and pay them a very low salary for something we all know is gonna make this company revenues until the end of time.




5. What was your first day on the set of porn movie like?


Nervous. I gotta say I still get nervous every time I’m going to shoot. What helped me on my very first day was the fact that I was paired with my x-baby Quawn (Bronx Tales II); he made it easier. Still I didn’t know where to put my hands though. Lol.


6. When we were first introduced a couple of months ago, I let you know that I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! Much of the porn featuring black and latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and black/latinos. I would like to know your take on this!


A lot of times it’s us who contribute to those stereotypes. If we wanna see a change we have to start with ourselves and educate those sitting next to us. True, “thuggish” sex is hot, but that’s not all we, Black and Latinos, have to offer. For instance, we, Black and Latinos, come in so many different colors and flavors. Let’s start there. So why focus on just one stereotype when we clearly are more than that? We also have office jobs and are educated, and we now have a Black president! What does that tell you? And so why the stereotype?


7. What changes would you like to see in the porn industry?


It’s no secret that the porn industry is a multi-million dollar industry. To these companies all I have to say is spoil your actors, pamper them! They are the ones that put the face and body out there. Offer them a pay that’s fair. Make them happy. Give them a reason to show up to the shoot with a smile and ready to give it all. In the long run that will lead to maybe even better quality in all aspects for everybody.


8. What has your experience been like working with a smaller “boutique” studio (i.e. Machofucker)


I understand your question , I’m not sure that Macho Fucker can be considered a small boutique any more. It amazes me how many people hit me up especially via twitter from so many different countries and they know who I am. It really is very flattering. As far as my personal experience, even though they (Macho Fucker) focus mainly on the tops, I can’t complain, my relationship with the owner/director has been great. I’m just grateful that since day one he gave me the opportunity without hestitation.



9. Would you be open to work with other companies? If so, what would be the criteria before you work with them?


As long as I am offered what I’m u$ed to, I’m ready to swallow some dick and spread my butt cheeks.


10. Does your family know you are in the adult film business? If so, what are their thoughts?


My family knows and support everything I do. We just don’t talk about certain things that there’s no need to.


11. Lots of porn stars I’ve talked told me about the negative comments they’ve received for being a “porn star”. Yet these are the same people who are probably jacking their dick to you being fucked on film. LOL. How have you dealt with the criticism?


First of all, thank you very much for the implied compliment, because I do not consider myself a porn star. I call myself a part-time porn actor. Now, getting back to your question, I am known for having a smart mouth; I never let anybody walk on me. That said, it’s very simple … I just laugh: Let he who is without sin cast the first stone!


12. Condom-less sex is making a huge comeback and is almost becoming the norm again! Machofucker is known for only doing Bareback/Raw films. There is a big debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourages viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. This in turn, in the critic’s reasoning, have lead to the rise in HIV infections particularly in the Black/Latino community. What is your take on their analysis? And the return raw/bareback comeback in porn?


Speaking with all honesty, having unprotected sex is the new “thing”. “If you don’t do bb, I ain’t fucking you”. The only difference between them and myself, is that I do it in front of a camera. Personally, it’s not my intention to be a role model on what people should or should not do. Porn is all about fantasies. And if you ask me, anybody that knows me will tell you how much I take care of my health. For instance, I play safe 85% – 90% of the times when I’m not in front of a camera. We all have choices. At the end of the day we’re all adults and everybody knows the risks and dangers out there.


If you watch a Sylvester Stallone movie and on one of the scenes he jumps from a plane to his car yet, he gets up and his hair is perfect … You know that’s Hollywood, and if you try it on your own you know what can happen to you.


People must be responsible for their own actions.


The return of raw sex in porn to me, is definitively hot. The success of it clearly tells you that people are enjoying it and buying it. Then again, like I said in the beginning, porn is a fantasy.


13. Name some porn stars you have really enjoyed working with on Machofucker?


My x-baby Quawn and of course, sexy Antonio Biaggi.




14. What porn stars would you like to work with that you haven’t so far?


There’s a few, just to mention some: my pa, Ian Rock, even though it would be a HUGE challenge, for more than one reason. Igor, Ruff Ryder, Barrington Brooks, Phyton and Jiggy Man who unfortunately I don’t think he is doing porn any more, but he was the one that got me hooked to Macho Fucker.


15. In all of your films you have been a power bottom. J Are you a power bottom, in private life? Do you fuck as well (i.e. versatile)?


I definitively enjoy being a bottom on and off camera. In my private life I can be more of a freak and a power bottom because there’s no time limit and things can be more spontaneous. Sex was made to enjoy, and that’s what I do … Have I ever fucked somebody? …. Yeah, I have …


16. In all of your scenes, you have done 1-1 scenes. Are you open to do 3somes on film? Are you open to do safe sex scenes as well?


Hopefully I will have my first threesome coming up soon, and I definitively don’t have an issue being safe.


17. In your private life, do you prefer 1-1? 3somes/Groups?


In my private life I do it all. One on one, groups, toys, etc …


18. What’s your favorite position to be fucked?

Me laying on my stomach with my ass up. You on top of me and hitting it to the side.


19. Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both? J


This is a good question, because the sensation is so different. But, I’m gonna say a thick dick always hurts more at first, but once you can take it … it feels amazing! LOL … Now, if you have both, a fat and long dick? That’s even better!




20. How and when did you lose your virginity?


I’ve never talked about this because I was only 11 and it wasn’t a consensual thing. But my first consensual relationship, was when I was about 16.


21. What turns you on about a man – both sexually or non sexually!


First and most important, my man has to be a man. Masculine. If I’m getting fucked I need to feel manly hands handling my body. I don’t expect everybody to have a perfect six pack, but I do expect my man to take care of himself. Height and weight proportionate. A pretty dick is always appreciated. And well, it’s no secret I have a preference for black men. That doesn’t mean I haven’t dated all races though, because I believe sexy comes in all races and color


Non- sexually, I like somebody who can hold a conversation, somebody who is non-judgmental and open to new experiences, somebody who treats me good and who’s honest, somebody I can laugh with even during sex.


22. Are you single? In a relationship? If you are in a relationship, how has it affected your relationship being in the adult industry?


I’m single. However, I do live with somebody. Somebody who is my roommate, and who is more than just a friend. Somebody who already has a chapter written in the history of my life. We live together and we fuck, but at the end of the day, he is as free to do him, as I am to do me. His name is Ian Rock. Ian is my pa!


23. What hobbies do you enjoy? What do you like to do in your spare time?


I usually go the gym, listen to music as I lay in my room by myself wit dim lights. Read a book, watch a movie, or play tetris. I’m very laid back.




24. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!

That I am actually shy. I’m learning now to talk more to people and be more social.

I’m a home boy. If I have to choose between going out to a crowded club and dance all night and scream so my friend next to me can hear me OR go to a relax lounge to have a drink with a small group of friends, OR stay home with somebody special, just having drinks and watching a good movie; I’ll definitively choose either one of that last two.


Contrary to what I project on screen, I’m relationship oriented. I have been in relationships more than I have been single. I like to have that special one; someone I can talk to any time of day, someone I can share those special moments with, that years from now I’m gonna reminisce.



25. With the election season in full swing, what issue is most important to you? Least important?


That’s a very interesting question, and by being an immigrant, I must say one of the most important issues for me is immigration. Something needs to be done soon. There are millions of people living in this country who have no right and who’s only crime is looking for a better quality life for them and their families. How can that be punished when all these people are just willing to work hard, serve this great country and be part of this society? Keep in mind that a lot of these people are educated: doctors, professors, who all they need is the opportunity.

There are many other issues that need to be addressed as well: new jobs, health care, students loans, Iran, etc. I could go on and on about this question.


26. Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you?

Because I’m fairly new and so many good things are happening so quickly and so unexpectedly, I only have a Facebook page which I don’t use as often and my Twitter account. I mainly use Facebook to store pictures from photoshoots, etc. You can find me by looking for Nandito Torreblanca and my Twitter is @nanditoxxxx !


27. Here are Raw Daddy’s list of questions I ask each interviewee.


Name 5 of your favorite music artists

– I’m bi-cultural, therefore I have a wide taste in music. Some of my favorites will be: sexy Maxwell, Jay Z, Sade, U 2, Lenny Kravitz and most of the female gay icons from the American and Spanish market.


What’s your favorite color?


– Red, black and white.

· What’s your favorite curse word?

– Pendejo. Looove that word! There’s so much you can say with that little word depending on the context. The closest translation in English would be: “ass hole”, but not exactly. I don’t have a favorite curse word in English.


· What do you fear the most?

– I can’t stand mice and rats. But more seriously speaking, I fear growing old alone. And that’s not a nice feeling.


· Boxers or Briefs or No Underwear

– I’m an underwear freak 100%. I’ wear anything as long as it’s sexy. If you were to open my drawer you will find boxers, briefs, jock straps, bikinis, etc. Depending the occasion it’s what I wear or not wear anything at all.


New York City or Los Angeles


– New York. I could never live in any other city. Even though I wasn’t born here, I consider myself a New Yorker at heart.


What’s your favorite lube?

– Boy Butter

Pizza Hut or Papa Johns

– Pizza Hut.

If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why?

– I can’t believe this was the last question and the most difficult for me to answer. Only because there are a few celebrities I admire and respect, but I’m not sure I’d like to meet them afraid of being disappointed due to their reputation. But if I could go back on time I’d love to go back, sit in silence and just observe people like Graham Bell, Alva Edison … How did they put all their ideas together? Especially in a time when there was no technology like there is today.

Or hang out with Da Vinci on a Friday night to see his favorite drag show. Who does he prefer? Ru Paul or Amanda Lepore? LOL


· If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why?

– I’d like to visit Venice at some point


28. Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best in whatever you do. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans?


I just wanna thank the fans out there. Knowing that somebody is watching what I’m doing is very flattering. Never in a thousand years I thought I’d be giving an interview. Many times when I log on Facebook or Twitter, and my fans tell me their crazy fantasies it’s kinda hot. Other times, they say I make their days when I twit. Truth is they are the ones that make my day when I’m feeling down or something went wrong that day … For all that Thank you very much!


And Thank you Raw Leather Daddy for the interest on my persona! XOXOXOXO!!



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