Pillow Talk with Raw Daddy – Robby Mendez

This month’s edition of Pillow Talk, I have the privilege to interview one of the hottest bottoms in the porn scene, Robby Mendez. He is a really cool guy from the West Coast and super sexy! 🙂

Enjoy our interview!

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1. Tell us about yourself Robby (age, where you from, etc.)

I was born in Yucatan Mexico and moved to the US on February 2001 to Bellevue, Washington where I met my first boyfriend, who was in the Navy! Then I moved to California with him (Sonoma County) I was with him for 4 years, after breaking up I decided to move to Los Angeles, so I packed all my things in my car and drove here in October 2008 (Columbus day) I was searching for a new home. I’m very happy in Los Angeles! Right now I’m 28 Years old.

2. How did you get your porn name?

You are right, only a few people know my real name. I ask my friends to call me Robby Mendez so they all know me as that. It was my ex-boyfriends idea. I always love Robby and he said since you like doing men, he told me once…” Robby does men, Robby Men does” (I agree, I do men, a lot lol). So we combined Men does to formed Mendez. Since that my name is been Robby Mendez. I don’t have another name unless you buy me an airline ticket or book me a hotel room.

3. How were you introduced into the adult industry? Were you an escort first or an adult movie performer first?

I was a gogo Dancer for Club Papi in San Francisco and they asked me to do a solo video for latinboyz.com so I agreed. They liked me so much so I did an action scene for them. After that ,I love porn. How long have you been doing it?

4. How long have you been doing it? Was it all you thought it would be?

I been doing porn since I moved to California in 2004. And No, I’m actually planning to quit soon! That’s why I got my own studio! I love being behind the camera more than anything.

5. What was your first day on the set of porn movie like?

I was very nervous, especially because I knew the latinboyz.com site and I knew they were good and popular, but Ken was very nice and professional so that helped a lot. My ex-boyfriend actually took me to the offices and Ken drove me to the house were we did the video. it was a great experience!

6. Does your family know you are in the adult film business?

Some do, especially my twin sister. She’s my best friend and she knows everything about me and sometimes we even talk about my clients or videos. All my friends and family know I’m a gogo dancer and a masseur, but only my sister and mom knows I escort. I love her and she loves me back.

7. Recently you have launched your own website (www.robbymendez.com) and your company, JCRM Enterprises that features films with you in the starring role. What prompted you to start your company? How is business going for you?

I always had my site since I moved to Los Angeles my first video was release in 2008, but I just got my business partner (My second ex-boyfriend) and wanted to make it bigger so we got a new server, new content and models and launched the new site September 2011. So it is new and its growing every day.

8. When we I reached out to you recently, I let you know that I am launching my own production company, MEN Entertainment, which will put a positive, mature and fresh face of Men of Color in porn! Much of the porn featuring black and latino models are mainly based on negative stereotypes perpetuated by both whites and within the black/latino community. I would like to know your take on this!

Go man, I’m happy you are doing something about it, we are getting popular, but we do need all the support we can get. I love my mixed guys and its sad to see mainly white porn out there. I think we are hotter and with more passion sexually that other race LOL

9. What changes would you like to see in the porn industry?

More mixed guys and more hot action, I do love a good fuck scene, but also I love some story line on the videos, the models don’t even have to talk, but it will be nice to see more things that just pure sex, uniforms, different sets and crazy positions lol (My own point of view)

10. What has your experience been like working with a smaller studios (i.e. RawStrokes)

Rawstrokes.com is not that small, Marco Paris is doing a great job and he’s always nice, professional and fun. I have no complains about him, except that he always get the biggest cocks in the porn industry (Most of the time is extra painful 🙂 I work for other companies and rawstrokes is one of the best so far.

11. If given the opportunity, would you be open to work with major companies (i.e. Raging Stallion/Falcon, Treasure Island, etc.)? If so, what would be the criteria before you work with them?

Sure. Just hot Sex and hot guys! And please don’t act big, we know you are big studios, but when you start acting like you own the world then the fun is gone and the hot sex is gone with your attitude. I do hope some day my studio will be big and I still want to treat my models with respect and make them feel comfortable! There is nothing worse than coming to a studio and and people making you feel small, at least for that day you are the star, that’s my way of saying thanks to my models.

12. Since your introduction into porn, most of your scenes have been predominately bareback/raw! Is this by choice or would you do more safe scenes if the opportunity presented itself?

That’s what sells more, but yes I prefer safe sex.

13. As I’ve asked other porn stars, there is a big debate whether or not people performing Bareback/Raw porn encourage viewers to perform “unsafe” sexual practices. Many critics believe it has lead to the rise in HIV infections, particularly with young Black/Latino males. What is your take on their analysis?

I will always love bareback sex videos and I DO NOT think it encourages unprotected sex, we are all responsible of our own bodies and sex education is quite big in this country, there’s always a risk performing bareback sex, so as long as you know that there’s not reason to have less bareback hot sex on film. Just remember HIV is not the only bad thing out there and always play safe.

14. I’m curious to know how you have handle some of the negative comments that I’m sure you have read from people because you perform in porn movies and you escort. We all know, these are the same people who are probably jacking their dick to you being fucked on film. LOL. So how do you handle it?

I do have some fans, and some other guys who hate me, mainly because they see my scenes and they want bb sex, most of the times those guys don’t know how to handle a NO, so they get upset and they call me names. I used to get upset for things like that. Now I just let it go and if they keep bugging me I either block them or keep ignoring them until they give up. My life is mine and my time is gold to wasted on people like that. I always give a second chance, if you screw it twice you will probably never hear from me.

15. With all the movies you have done so far, name some porn stars you have really enjoyed working with!

Hot Rod, Antonio Biaggi, Ethan Roberts, Adam Russo and Mr. Marky.

16. What porn stars that you haven’t had the opportunity to work with would you like to do a scene with?

I don’t really follow a lot of porn stars, so it will be kool to meet new ones.

17. In all of your films you have been a power bottom. Are you a power bottom, in private life? Do you fuck as well (i.e. versatile)?

lol, I love getting fuck, but I also love fucking and rimming a big ass. I could eat ass for hours. I consider myself very versatile. Of course in porn I have to be a bottom because I don’t have a big cock and believe me I don’t mind it at all.

18. You have done both 1 on 1’s, 3somes and group scenes. When you are working either in porn or escorting, do you prefer one on one or 3somes/group sex or does it matter? What about in your private life?

In porn and escorting, I prefer one to one. Too many people makes it complicated and extra painful (some times those scenes are more than 3 hours long) my hole gets tired after 2 hours. I used to have a sex party once a month and it was the best in Los Angeles. I do love groups like that because everybody is having fun (Only on my personal life though) I still do one on one with escort and porn.

19. What’s your favorite position to be fucked?

On my belly so I can feel the cock rubbing my cheeks and my hole at the same time! Sometimes it makes me cum without touching myself.

20. Do you prefer a thick dick or a long dick? Or both?

I prefer thick because I love feeling my hole stretch and of course if it long too, the better for me. J

21. In a few of your films I see you ventured out into some fetish play. Some piss play. Leather-BDSM play, etc. What fetishes do you get into? What do you want to learn more about?

I did some of those LOL. I think I want to do more piss and FF as a top and now as a bottom. I don’t think I can get a hand in my hole but I’m willing to try.

22. Recently, I’ve noticed on your Facebook page, you have been photographed with a sexy guy named Mr. Rocket. You later told me this is your boyfriend. How did you two meet? How long have you two been together?

That’s the past now 😦 But I don’t mind talking about it. Like I said to some of my friends, I enjoy the moment even if it last for a week, a month or a year. We met through my business partner. He did a solo for my studio and then an action scene with me.

23. I saw your ad on www.rentboy.com with a photo of you and Mr. Rocket . Did you escort as a team only or work both individually and as team?

We used to work either way, now its back to just me.

24. With both of you in the adult biz, did that put any more pressure on your relationship?

We didn’t have a single problem about that, we both new about our work and we both respected that.

25. In the next 5 – 10 years, do you still plan to be in the adult biz or retired from all of it? If not, what are your plans after retiring from the adult biz?

I see myself at a house in Mexico close to the beach. Hopefully my website will be bringing enough money to let me do that. I hope it does because I have good ideas and my memberships are the cheapest on the market.

26. How did you lose your virginity?

hahaha, seriously? LOL I went to a boarding school for boys when I was 13 to 16 years old. All the boys were extra horny at that time. I had more action than now. We all fucked each other and it didn’t matter if they were gay or not! I’m pretty sure 90 percent of those boys are married now and living a straight life. I had cock every where and sex every where, from closets to roof tops, classrooms, kitchen, at the beach (we were 2 blocks from the ocean). Sometimes I stayed a month long there because I was bad! my mom got used to that and when you are alone and horny with other boys, sex has to happen. So I lost my virginity with my love Marco when I was 13, the best experience of my life.

27. What hobbies do you enjoy? What do you like to do in your spare time?

Movies, I love them at home and at the movie theaters, also I enjoy music and dancing, but mainly to entertain my friends. I love having them over my place from time to time.

28. What is something your fans might be shocked to know about you!

I love girls. If I find the perfect one I might even get married and have kid with her.

With the election season in full swing and politics becoming so divisive, what issue(s) are most important to you? Least important?

29. Not really into politics, sorry. Even if I say something about it, living in this country for 10 years made me realize that the government always does whatever they want.

30. Do you have a website or blog where your fans can reach you?




31. Here are Raw Daddy’s list of questions I ask each interviewee.

•. Name 5 of your favorite music artists Gloria Trevi, Alejandra Guzman, Miguel Bose, Enrique Iglesias and Julieta Venegas

•. What’s your favorite color? White

•. What’s your favorite curse word? Fuck

•. What’s your favorite movie? Captain America

•. What do you fear the most? Snakes

•. Boxers or Briefs or No Underwear lately boxers

•. New York City or Los Angeles Los Angeles

•. What’s your favorite lube? wet Milenium

•. If you could meet any celebrity, dead or alive, who would it be and why? Pedro Infante. He’s from the 60’s in Mexico. He’s movies are always good and he look so down to earth.

•. If you can be anywhere (i.e. islands, city, etc), where would it be and why? My home town, in Yucatan Mexico. I miss my mommy lol

Thanks so much for your time. I wish you all the best. Is there anything you would like to say to your fans?

Please don’t be shy to reach out to me, I’ll do my best to make you part of my life even if its just to say hi. I love you all and you make me feel really good when I hear from you and I know you like my work! It gives me more energy to do more!

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