I read this blog from my boy, Immanuel, who resides in DC. I don’t know about DC but this blog is right on for the all the bottoms in the ATL. Check out his blog – Confessions of a Down-Low Brother. Very good reading!
I’m going to catch some heat for writing this blog entry. But hey, I don’t care. I have to get this off my chest.
Gay men divide themselves into myriad categories — tops, bottoms, versatile, versatile tops, versatile bottoms. Often the lines blur — you will find a guy who is mostly a top who will flip and take dick from certain guys. It all depends on the mood, the unexplainable chemistry that occurs between two men when they get down.
“Next time Immanuel bring more of your friends with big dicks so y’all can take turns fucking me,” he said.
- Keep your body in shape. With so many bottoms on the market being fit is an asset. There is nothing sadder than an older, fat bottom with a stretched ass and a size 44 waist.
- Get off your back and close your legs for a minute. Learn how to pleasure your man in ways besides straight fucking. Try massage. Nipple play etc. Don’t insist on fucking at the top of a session, let it build up to that.
- Invest in a good dildo and learn how to use it. Because with the shortage of good tops you are going to need a toy when the real thing is not in reach.